How To Build Up Yourself To Others By Telling Your Stories

I have something to tell you that most  people didn't know..  You become your own story as you tell about yourself… every day  in our lives we always  telling stories about ourselves to our friends , family members, business partners and other associates . But many of us are not aware the impact of the stories we are creating.

These stories can either break us or build us.. How?  For example there are  people who I don’t trust sometimes not because they are bad people but because of the stories they told to me about themselves.  They tell about their lack of responsibility before in the past or they tell stories about their complaints and failures and they keep repeating them.  Eventually they transfer those stories to me  and soon become my reality. 

So the way I view him or her is such an irresponsible person, now do you trust irresponsible person?  Of course not.  In short, they are the ones creating their reality based on the stories they tell. How about  you tell stories about your success or accomplishment and how you achieved it, like a story  that  you were once in high school  a captain ball of a football team or story like you help your community in  organizing charity works..  Even small successes you often  trash into a garbage can,  will make a difference in your life.  It is not yet too late.

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